About Sarah
Sarah is my real name. And John is my husband’s real name, too.
Other than that we value our privacy, not least because John and I run our own business, and for professional reasons we want to keep our sex-life separate from our business life insofar as we can. Plus, there are a lot of weirdos, creeps and, frankly, unpleasant people out there who are variously sexually unstable, aggressive and threatening, and even just plain… creepy.
We’re a fairly normal happily married couple (although our being happy perhaps itself makes us not that normal), with one major difference: John is locked, by his own consent, in a Lori #2C.
In the early days of our journey into male chastity I would allow him orgasms every three months or so, when we’d have “Chastity Honeymoons”, where we’d make love and he’d be allowed to orgasm how and when he wanted to.
But since New Year’s Eve 2010, John hasn’t orgasmed at all. Not once. And he won’t be doing so until New Year’s Day 2012. A whole year’s orgasm denial, in other words.
And now?
We’re seriously aiming for permanent orgasm denial for John, beginning some time in early– to mid-2012.
If you’re not into the male chastity “scene” yourself, then you might find this just a little strange. You might even be tempted to think he’s some kind of “sissy”, or somehow less manly because of it.
Nothing could be further from the truth. He’s strong, assertive, confident sexy and altogether manly and masculine.
By the same token, I’m not some fire-breathing, leather-clad über-Dominatrix who calls him a “worthless slave” and treats him like dirt. I have to ask myself why any woman keeps her man around if he’s truly worthless.
Oh, I know some men like that kind of thing, and I’m not making a value-judgment either way. My only comment really is it’s not for us and we’re into what you might call vanilla chastity. We are not into D&S and my “control” of John does not extend beyond consensual male chastity.
And the reason for this chastity blog?
When we first started getting into it, some 4 years ago now, we had a hard time finding anything which catered exclusively for male chastity without going into all the other female-domination topics, too.
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So I finally plucked up the courage to start my own little corner of the Internet. And it wasn’t long before readers were clamouring for something more substantial than the blog alone, so I put together Why He Wants You to Say NO! a free Guide to male chastity, and How To Drive Your Man Insane With Desire, an erotic, explicit, no-holds-barred introduction to Tease and Denial.
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And here you are!
I hope you find it interesting, informative, useful and fun.
Please, feel free to comment or to send me a message, but please note I rarely answer questions one-to-one because of the sheer volume of messages I get. I do read them all, though, I promise.
But, please, before you feel prompted to ask me a question, read the Blog first and elect to receive my free male chastity guide and emails. Almost every question you can think of has already been asked and answered somewhere.
Male chastity is a wonderful adventure, and let’s all share it…
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