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Comment on Sarah... you rock! (his words, not mine) by Patrick

Patrick — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 02:50:50 +0000

Hi Sarah: I agree you rock!!! I am new to your blog so let me say I am working towards permanent chastity and orgasm denial for me through personal chastity (not always successful). I have discussed key holding with my wife more than once over the last 4 years. She is not comfortable with this role yet (probably due to my lack of ability to explain the male chastity experience to her benefit). She is the love of my life for over 40 years and I have chosen not to try to impose my needs on my wife. My wife and I have worked hard, raised 2 to adult hood successfully and have 2 grand children. So I have chosen to work towards trying to be a better husband, which for me means permanent chastity and orgasm denial, despite being a randy old/male over 65!!! PS I am going against all Baby Boomer predictions and starting a new career for the last 1/3 of my life with my wife’s agreement and approval!!! Thank god for that woman!!! Learning more about your blog weekly and thanks for being so brave! Patrick

Comment on The Male Chastity Blog by Patrick

Patrick — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 22:33:36 +0000

Hello I was surprised how easily my wife took to the idea of a chastity device. She holds my key around her neck and it drives me wild every time I see the keys. She has been researching on what it means to be a key holder. Maybe I should be careful what I wished for. We have been using a device for about 4 days now

Comment on The Male Chastity Blog by Matew

Matew — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 14:20:59 +0000

Hello there… I´m in chaste for 3 weeks now… And I´m running out of ideas to stimulate my wife to use her toy… Do you have an list of things I can do to make her more exited? Im horny…

Comment on Orgasm denial as a permanent way of life by Kathyann0026ts

Kathyann0026ts — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 18:19:33 +0000

Personality I went with permanent chastity, myself. you see even though I was born a male. Since the earliest of times I wanted to be a girl. Since I was a early age in life I dressed full time as a girl. I hated those male things I had between my legs. I ended up living with my older sister & my ex-girlfriend. They became lesbian lovers & I became their trainee. It was 2 years ago that I let them remove my testicles. And, after knowing how I feel now, I should have had that done to me long ago. I don’t need chastity, now.

Comment on Orgasm denial as a permanent way of life by Patrick

Patrick — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 20:47:49 +0000

Hello: I am denying myself orgasm’s for longer and longer periods of time with the goal of permanent denial. Since this is my first post please allow me to say to Sarah, thank you for the blog and your insight to the Male Chastity Obsession / Addiction. I am new to your writings and your blog but I am experienced in Chastity. I believe your female perception is exceptional and I am learning from your e-mail experiences as you have described them, as well as from your research into the subject. Your thoughts have opened my eyes in many ways to women’s view both experienced and non-judgmental .
Just to give you and others in the trail above a bit of my back ground I started with a CB 6000 about 3 years ago but after about 1 1/2 years of splitting 2 plastic chastity cages, I graduated to the more 24/7 feeling of the bird locked device, which also split after about a year. More recently I have been alternating between the BON 4 and a stainless steel curved wire device.
All this has been self-directed to help me become a better husband to my wife of over 40 years. I do not believe I have been nearly good enough for her commitment, compassion and gentle spirit. I am trying to become more focused on her needs and emotions and a better husband all round with no expectation of reciprocation. Please wish me luck in breaking my selfish addition to self abuse and my goal of permanent denial.

Comment on Male Chastity FAQ by Leland Heller

Leland Heller — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 12:08:38 +0000

Yesterday (Jan 26th) I bought and read “Be Careful What You Wish For”

Totay I received an email from you stating that “A Letter To Your Beloved” would be sent if we ordered your book. Can I still get “A Letter to Your Beloved”?

Comment on Orgasm denial as a permanent way of life by Dragan

Dragan — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:36:55 +0000

Permanent orgasm delijal is the best. I have strong mental orgasm when I perfom cunnilingus. Two times per month my wife is practice prostate milking with rude boy prostate masager. I like when I give her pleasure. Permanet oprgasm denial is excelent for my good behavior.

Comment on Orgasm denial as a permanent way of life by VsBoy

VsBoy — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 04:27:11 +0000

I wish my wife would deny me more. We are on the way there, and she has started denying me some and I’m hopeful she is starting to see some benefit.

One thing that has always been my fantasy if to be forced into chastity. However, now that I’ve read this, I realize that you are right, there is no way my delicate small flower of a wife would actually be able to “force” me into this if I didn’t let her.

With this understanding in hand, it is now up to me to understand that even though this is very serious and turns me on greatly, it is still a game we are playing and I have to make sure it is fun and rewarding to her if I expect her to keep playing with me.

Thank you for posting this.

Comment on 30 things porn has taught us all by Yezika

Yezika — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 04:12:50 +0000

I think porn is damaging beyond what most people realize. As for banning it, I’m not sure…

I’m not a libertarian and I hate porn; I just don’t see the practicality of prohibition.

Comment on 30 things porn has taught us all by junior

junior — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 19:22:08 +0000

Thank you for posting such a hilarious but true look into the stereotype. I spend a lot of time in online forums that are filled with people who hold the stereotypes of porn, chastity, and other fetishes to be true and it can get frustrating at times. This was very refreshing.