Let me repeat that: it’s only a game. Male chastity is most cer­tainly not some­thing to get stressed about, whether you’re locked up and drib­bling or the one dan­gling the key in your poor man’s face with a promise of another few weeks of lockup to come.

Angst and anx­i­ety is com­mon, espe­cially in those new to the game, a com­mon refrain being “I’m not sure what I’ve done… and I don’t know when I’ll get out again”.

That’s from the men, obviously.

And the women?

You’d think that since we’re the ones in the dri­ving seat, so to speak, we’d have it all mapped out and know exactly where we’re going and what we’re up to, wouldn’t you?

Well, we’ve not and we don’t. At least, that’s been my per­sonal expe­ri­ence and the expe­ri­ence of many women who write to me. We’re as clue­less as you are.

And why is this…?

Because of a lack of com­mu­ni­ca­tion, that’s why.

Come on peo­ple, this isn’t hard… I take pains to cover this in the free Guide and those who read it tell me how grate­ful they are.

I wish I could take the credit for some amaz­ing advice, but really it’s just plain com­mon sense – how can you expect to know how to play the male chastity game if you don’t actu­ally know the rules?

And it’s not enough to tell your wife or girl­friend, “you’re in charge”, because that implies there are no bound­aries. So… she can what? Slice your penis off?

Obvi­ously not, unless you’re com­pletely insane.

So there are clearly some bound­aries and we don’t even have to be told what they are. But that’s not good enough, because real life isn’t usu­ally about extremes – it’s about nor­mal things hap­pen­ing in nor­mal ways. Your play­ing the male chastity game doesn’t change any of that.

Yet over and over again I read of men pan­ick­ing because they’re feel­ing sore and might have to be unlocked. They’re either fee­ble minded or just seek­ing atten­tion, because any sane and ratio­nal per­son would realise any device can sim­ply come off and you can heal.

And the other side of the coin is their wives and girl­friends are gen­uinely con­cerned their men are in pain and per­haps even suf­fer­ing phys­i­cal injury… and truth be told… most women aren’t into that (read Thumper’s blog and see just how hard it was to get his lady to hurt him even when he wanted her to).

So come on, lighten up, puh-lease. I promise, the world is not going to end and the sky is not going to fall in sim­ply because you have to take some time out to recover from the unde­ni­able tri­als and tribu­la­tions of male chastity. It’s highly unlikely your wife is going to divorce you, either (I admit, it’s not impos­si­ble… although if your wife is like that, then get rid of the bitch and share your life with an actual human being instead).

I know it’s a fun game and it’s one you can (and I do) take seri­ously. I’m dead seri­ous about male chastity for John and not let­ting him orgasm until Christ­mas. And he rev­els in my strict­ness and uncom­pro­mis­ing atti­tude to the game.

But it’s not some­thing to get uptight about. Really, it isn’t. You’re wast­ing your pre­cious life on some­thing that really doesn’t war­rant it.

It’s like Scrab­ble. You play it by the rules no mat­ter what, but it’s silly to get emo­tional when you lose.

Imag­ine for a moment John has an acci­dent, or a moment of weak­ness or has to orgasm for some unfath­omable rea­son I can’t even imagine.

Would it be a big deal?

Nope.

On the con­trary, it’d be funny because I can just imag­ine the noise and the mess and the col­laps­ing into laugh­ter. Yes, we’d start again and I’d prob­a­bly be more care­ful in future, but would it bother me?

Not a bit.

So do your­self a favour and lighten up (you know who you are).

P.S. Remem­ber to get the free Guide and get on the list for the Newslet­ter. Tomor­row is “Some­thing for the Week­end” Day, and this week I’ve got another teas­ing ses­sion in there, a dis­cus­sion about male chastity and pun­ish­ment plus a very rare and spe­cial con­tri­bu­tion by Mr John him­self. We is priv­i­leged we is.

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