Comments on: Male Chastity and Female Domination (again!) http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/ Real Life Male Chastity and Orgasm Denial Sat, 04 Feb 2012 02:50:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Pete http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-360 Pete Wed, 26 May 2010 13:53:08 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-360 Good morning Sarah, I thoroughly enjoy reading your blog and look forward to each new post! Of late, there has been a lot of discussion regarding your role in y'alls journey into the male chastity lifestyle. Labels, such as mistress and dom have been tossed like confetti. However, I see a blooming romance akin to the court of King Arthur, where Sir Lancelot was smitten by Queen Guinevere, and would do anything for her. John is your Knight(soon to be in shining armor[pun intended]), and you already are his Queen Sarah. As Queen, you sent him on a quest that will take six months to complete at which point he will receive his reward. Sir John already knows that after the current task is completed there is yet another quest that would require a full year to complete. Its a love story. A modern day real life romance. Life is short, enjoy it to the fullest! Good morning Sarah,

I thoroughly enjoy reading your blog and look forward to each new post!

Of late, there has been a lot of discussion regarding your role in y’alls journey into the male chastity lifestyle. Labels, such as mistress and dom have been tossed like confetti. However, I see a blooming romance akin to the court of King Arthur, where Sir Lancelot was smitten by Queen Guinevere, and would do anything for her.

John is your Knight(soon to be in shining armor[pun intended]), and you already are his Queen Sarah. As Queen, you sent him on a quest that will take six months to complete at which point he will receive his reward. Sir John already knows that after the current task is completed there is yet another quest that would require a full year to complete.

Its a love story. A modern day real life romance. Life is short, enjoy it to the fullest!

]]> By: Sarah http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-359 Sarah Wed, 26 May 2010 08:14:31 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-359 Thank you, Vanessa. Although we're looking at it in isolation here, it's actually a fairly widespread human trait - it seems to me to be perhaps related to the notion of "in group" and "out group". Any time anyone does something different from the "norm" in a particular activity or endeavour, there is a storm of derision and ridicule wholly disproportionate to any boat-rocking they've done. And really, why do people care so much? It's irrational. Why should anyone else care what I say about, say, forced male chastity being a myth, when they can simply not read anything I write and continue to prowl the forums where the lie is held as Sacred Truth? Why do I even care about exposing the lies? There are lots of reasons, as I've written, but really, none of them make a bugger's worth of difference in the grand scheme of things. Thank you, Vanessa.

Although we’re looking at it in isolation here, it’s actually a fairly widespread human trait — it seems to me to be perhaps related to the notion of “in group” and “out group”.

Any time anyone does something different from the “norm” in a particular activity or endeavour, there is a storm of derision and ridicule wholly disproportionate to any boat-rocking they’ve done.

And really, why do people care so much? It’s irrational. Why should anyone else care what I say about, say, forced male chastity being a myth, when they can simply not read anything I write and continue to prowl the forums where the lie is held as Sacred Truth?

Why do I even care about exposing the lies? There are lots of reasons, as I’ve written, but really, none of them make a bugger’s worth of difference in the grand scheme of things.

]]> By: Vanessa Chaland http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-358 Vanessa Chaland Wed, 26 May 2010 03:05:02 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-358 Great post and great blog. I totally agree with your desire to 'do things' your own way regardless if they conform to those rules that some think lord over all things fetish/kink related. I have been told via online 'experts' that everything I have ever done, felt, thought was arong and I am not a "TRUE" (insert here,,,,Domme, Mistress, Sadist, Etcist) whatever. More power to you Sarah. :) Great post and great blog. I totally agree with your desire to ‘do things’ your own way regardless if they conform to those rules that some think lord over all things fetish/kink related. I have been told via online ‘experts’ that everything I have ever done, felt, thought was arong and I am not a “TRUE” (insert here„„Domme, Mistress, Sadist, Etcist) whatever.

More power to you Sarah. :)

]]> By: Sarah http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-357 Sarah Fri, 21 May 2010 19:39:54 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-357 Not to mention a hole in their underpants... Not to mention a hole in their underpants…

]]> By: Tom Allen http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-356 Tom Allen Fri, 21 May 2010 19:37:05 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-356 <i>Because, darling, they don’t fan­tas­ise about you in leather wield­ing a whip? </i> :stamps foot peevishly: Dammit, I *could* do that, if I wanted to. Heh - a dom in chastity? It would blow their minds.. Because, darling, they don’t fan­tas­ise about you in leather wield­ing a whip?

:stamps foot peevishly:

Dammit, I *could* do that, if I wanted to.

Heh — a dom in chastity? It would blow their minds..

]]> By: Sarah http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-355 Sarah Fri, 21 May 2010 18:08:30 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-355 Because, darling, they don't fantasise about you in leather wielding a whip? ;-) They WANT me to be a Domme. I'd be their worst nighmare and most delicious fantasy come true. Miaow. Because, darling, they don’t fantasise about you in leather wielding a whip? ;-)

They WANT me to be a Domme. I’d be their worst nighmare and most delicious fantasy come true.

Miaow.

]]> By: Tom Allen http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-354 Tom Allen Fri, 21 May 2010 18:02:58 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-354 You know, I've been writing for several years, and I can't remember anybody arguing with me about my being (or not) submissive. Nobody has told me what I am probably thinking, nor has anyone taken any effort to point out how my relationship is something other than what I claim it to be. Why is that, do you think? You know, I’ve been writing for several years, and I can’t remember anybody arguing with me about my being (or not) submissive. Nobody has told me what I am probably thinking, nor has anyone taken any effort to point out how my relationship is something other than what I claim it to be.

Why is that, do you think?

]]> By: Sarah http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-353 Sarah Fri, 21 May 2010 17:04:50 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-353 "<i>If the emo­tions you are exper­i­en­cing are not those of dom­in­ance and sub­mis­sion then it is not D/s regard­less of how the beha­viour looks or sounds</i> How superlatively well put. Thank you. “If the emo­tions you are exper­i­en­cing are not those of dom­in­ance and sub­mis­sion then it is not D/s regard­less of how the beha­viour looks or sounds

How superlatively well put. Thank you.

]]> By: Michael_X http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-352 Michael_X Fri, 21 May 2010 17:00:24 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-352 Hi Sarah, Many thanks for the answer; we got there in the end. Yes, if the emotions you are experiencing are not those of dominance and submission then it is not D/s regardless of how the behaviour looks or sounds. Also thanks for the clarification of how you were using the word surrender in respect of John's surrender. Michael Hi Sarah,

Many thanks for the answer; we got there in the end. Yes, if the emotions you are experiencing are not those of dominance and submission then it is not D/s regardless of how the behaviour looks or sounds.

Also thanks for the clarification of how you were using the word surrender in respect of John’s surrender.

Michael

]]> By: Sarah http://www.malechastityblog.com/male-chastity-and-female-domination-again/#comment-351 Sarah Fri, 21 May 2010 16:02:19 +0000 http://www.malechastityblog.com/?p=404#comment-351 Oh, I will. No doubt of that. I have no idea how common it is, but every woman who's ever teased a man has at least cracked open the door and looked in. I suspect many more would take a step forwards than actually do if only there were more blogs like this one about (no modesty, false or otherwise, here, you'll note ;-)). Oh, I will. No doubt of that.

I have no idea how common it is, but every woman who’s ever teased a man has at least cracked open the door and looked in.

I suspect many more would take a step forwards than actually do if only there were more blogs like this one about (no modesty, false or otherwise, here, you’ll note ;-) ).

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