So… I’m back. I often say how male chastity often gets swamped by the minu­tiae of every­day life, and this week it hap­pened in spades for me and John.

We got back from our jaunt to Kerry to a whole shit-load of work, not least edit­ing the MP3s for Be Care­ful What YouWish For . They’re all done, on the server and ready for down­load (so if you’ve got the ebook but not had the link for the MP3s yet you need to email me and tell me, else you’ll miss out).

But through it all, the late nights, early morn­ings and end­less hours at the com­puter… there he his… Him­self, all locked up, aching and, I know with­out a shadow of a doubt, more des­per­ate to come than ever before (you’ll read why in the newslet­ter tomor­row).

And always that ques­tion in my mind. Two, really: what does he get out of male chastity? And what do I get out of it?

You’d think the sec­ond would be easy to answer… but it’s not. I still don’t know, some­times. I sus­pect that’s because it’s a pro­foundly emo­tional feel­ing… and they’re impos­si­ble to ratio­nalise, prob­a­bly by def­i­n­i­tion. Try to describe what “hap­pi­ness” is to some­one who’s never felt it. I guess it’s like try­ing to describe “blue” to some­one blind since birth.

As I say in Be Care­ful What You Wish For, I think over time the prac­tice of orgasm denial, that pro­longed teas­ing and vague promise of even­tual release (you should be so lucky) nec­es­sar­ily brings men and women together, because we women tend to get a much more phys­i­cal expe­ri­ence of sex, and for men it becomes more emotional.

That alone is a good argu­ment for male chastity in and of itself, in my book.

Another thing I’m get­ting to explore and expe­ri­ence more is my fem­i­nine power. I’ve writ­ten before how I’d make a wickedly superb Domme if I ever chose that path, and I’m sur­prised to find my wicked­ness with John gets more… wicked day by day.

Yet I’m also pleased to see my increas­ing orner­i­ness still has no ten­dency or temp­ta­tion to extend beyond the metaphor­i­cal bedroom.

The other day at the top of Torc, the weather sud­denly closed in while we were close to some pretty severe ter­rain, and he was instantly 100% Mr In Charge And Capa­ble while I meekly did as I was told. No, it’s not a huge moun­tain and not one you’re likely to get lost on, but to some­one like me who is more at home on the sofa, it’s scary when all of a sud­den you can’t see Jack shit and you don’t know where you are.

He kept me safe.

I won­der what a “supe­rior female” and her frilly-panty clad “sissy” would have done? I sup­pose you can see pink a ways off on a moun­tain, no?

Of course, there was no ques­tion of reward in terms of a break in male chastity. Oh no. On the con­trary, tired as we were and have been, we can­not help but talk for hours cir­cling around this idea of no-entry.

Christ­mas is a given, I think.

Longer?

I don’t know.

But back to my orig­i­nal think­ing. What do we get out of male chastity, over and above the increased inti­macy and amaz­ing sex?

Some­times I catch myself, as if see­ing myself in the third per­son and the absur­dity and unre­al­ity of it all comes home to me.

And I think WTF?

I’ll look at John and he’ll smile back, know­ingly, as if he can read my mind.

In truth I don’t know what he gets out of it. Only what he tells me. But I know him well enough to know if he didn’t like it, he’d change it. Even lov­ing me as he does, he wouldn’t put up with male chastity for a sec­ond longer than he wanted to.

Peo­ple often tell me what a lucky man John is. But really, I think I’m the lucky one here.

P.S. Newslet­ter day tomor­row, with a par­tic­u­larly filthy tale to tell. Oh, and it might be late after­noon, because we’re off to the Don­key Sanc­tu­ary to cud­dle some cute donkeys.

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