This is a post I’ve been promis­ing to write for a while, on male chastity health and safety. For now, let’s look at the purely phys­i­cal aspects.

There seem to be three main concerns:

1. Is it safe to go with­out an orgasm for a pro­longed period of time, even indefinitely?
2. Is it safe to wear a chastity belt for a long time?
3. Will being locked in a chastity device male my penis shrink?

Let’s take them in reverse order.

I’ve read lots of claims on forums that lock­ing a man in long-term chastity and not allow­ing him to have an erec­tion can cause his penis to shrink. I don’t know if there’s any truth in this, but cer­tainly the claims don’t seem very likely.

Why?

Because not one I’ve read has been writ­ten in the first per­son. It’s always report­ing some­thing they’ve read, heard or has described to them as hap­pen­ing to some­one else. It’s a bit like those urban leg­ends that go around – it’s always a friend of a friend, or some­thing like that, a con­nec­tion close enough to be plau­si­ble but far enough away to be unverifiable.

And since the skin of the penis is very flex­i­ble, it doesn’t strike me as being likely this should happen.

There are all sorts of rea­sons for your penis to shrink but I can’t find any reli­able and ver­i­fi­able evi­dence that lock­ing some­one in a male chastity belt is one of them.

Of course, this doesn’t mean I’m right.

And for me, it’s moot any­way, because I fre­quently treat John to some seri­ous tease and denial, which means he (and I) enjoy the full ben­e­fit of his unfet­tered erec­tion. Well, he doesn’t often enjoy the full ben­e­fit, but you know what I mean – male chastity for us is based on orgasm denial more than sex­ual activ­ity with his penis.

It could also hap­pen for psy­cho­log­i­cal rea­sons (being locked up for a long time may well remove the desire in some men and make them psy­cho­log­i­cally impo­tent). I don’t know – it’s likely to be dif­fer­ent from man to man, and for the same man in dif­fer­ent circumstances.

And the answer is sim­ple: you can avoid it with sim­ple tease and denial, or, indeed, reg­u­lar full sex, with or with­out orgasm. While this is just my own opin­ion, lock­ing a man’s penis away com­pletely and for­ever just wouldn’t suit me because that’s not how I want my rela­tion­ship to be.

Now, is it safe to wear a male chastity belt for a long time?

A bit of com­mon sense will tell you it depends on the belt and it depends on what you’re doing in it. If the belt is com­fort­able and fits well, and you’re not, say, crawl­ing around MRI scan­ners or spend­ing your time sit­ting in acti­vated microwave ovens or induc­tion fur­naces, I don’t see why not.

It’d be insane to put the belt or device on and never take it off again for inspec­tion or clean­ing (another claim you see bandied about a lot on the ‘net). But so long as you do take it off for inspec­tion reg­u­larly, and apply some of that com­mon sense regard­ing access to the key in an emer­gency, there’s no rea­son not to wear a com­fort­able male chastity device more or less indefinitely.

A related note of cau­tion: it’s tempt­ing and hot to make escape “impos­si­ble” and to have the key unreach­able (like, maybe thou­sands of miles away, or in some­one else’s pos­ses­sion when there’s no way you can get to it). This is not a good idea. Emer­gen­cies do hap­pen and even sim­ple things like a tes­ti­cle slip­ping out of a ring can be incred­i­bly painful and even dan­ger­ous if not attended to quickly (once one of John’s balls popped out of his Lori, even though that looked impossible).

As before, for John and me the ques­tion of “how long is safe?” is moot, since I like to play with him unlocked fairly often, usu­ally at least once a week and fre­quently more often than that.

Finally, the most inter­est­ing ques­tion of all: “is it safe to go with­out an orgasm for a pro­longed period of time, even indef­i­nitely?”

The answer has to be unequiv­o­cally yes. Male chastity and orgasm denial can be per­ma­nent with­out risk to phys­i­cal health, of that I’m sure. Your man’s men­tal health might suf­fer, but that’s another matter.

Some men will tell you when they’re horny that it’s actu­ally dan­ger­ous for their tes­ti­cles not to be allowed to orgasm. I expect most women have heard this at one time or another in their lives whether they’re into male chastity or not, espe­cially from young, horny men who’re try­ing to coerce you into giv­ing them what they want.

And I might be wrong, but I think it’s bol­locks, if you’ll for­give the pun. If it was true, then vasec­tomised men would have the same prob­lems, since there’s no way for sperm to escape their tes­ti­cles through the vas def­er­ens. This is func­tion­ally equiv­a­lent from the tes­ti­cles’ point of view to not hav­ing an orgasm.

How­ever, there is some evi­dence to show an increased prob­lem with the prostate if it’s not emp­tied from time to time (but then there’s research show­ing the oppo­site). So the jury’s out.

No one actu­ally knows (which is why they’re still doing research, at least accord­ing to pubmed.com).

But, of course, it’s per­haps best to be cau­tious, and we lose noth­ing because emp­ty­ing the prostate does not mean your man has to be allowed to orgasm.

There are other ways of doing it which go from the sub­lime to the frankly ridicu­lous (to my mind), and I’ll describe them in detail in a post tomorrow.

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