To continue from my last post, let’s look at male chastity milking.
One of the presuppositions underpinning the practice is long-term orgasm denial can be harmful to a man because it can cause problems with his prostate gland, including an increased risk of cancer.
This presupposition may or may not be correct, even though like so much else on the Forums and Blogs it’s accepted as Gospel Truth – Everyone Knows you “have” to milk the prostate “at least once a month” and this is the accepted Truth even though there’s: a) no compelling evidence to suggest milking is necessary for good prostate health; or b) that once a month is the ideal frequency.
But perhaps it’s best to err on the side of safety, and since male chastity milking itself can be as pleasurable or humiliating as you want it to be for both of you, then regardless of the health issues you might want to do it anyway.
As always there is more than one way to skin this particular cat, so let’s start simple and work our way up.
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First is the easiest and most common way: simply let your man have an orgasm once a month (we may as well use this arbitrary yardstick for the frequency as any other). Some couples might think this is an insufficiently-long period of orgasm denial, and you might be right. But even if milking is necessary for prostate health, then it’s unlikely once every six weeks is going to represent a significantly higher risk than once every four weeks does.
If you’re really unhappy with the thought of allowing or being allowed an orgasm this frequently, then there’s nothing to stop your partner from making sure it’s a ruined orgasm. You’ll get all the health benefits of male chastity milking, if there are any, and add to the frustration at the same time (but if you’ve never been for a month without an orgasm while “enjoying” tease and denial at the hands of your wife or girlfriend, then you probably don’t understand how long that month feels). You can use this with a bit of tease and denial, too.
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The next way to do it, and the way I typically do it with John, is external milking. I do this by gently stroking John’s perineum, the soft skin between the pubic symphysis and the coccyx, usually while he’s pleasing me with his tongue, although occasionally I’ll have him bend over a table or a chair with his legs apart. I don’t do this often, because I personally prefer to see male chastity milking as a shared pleasure rather than just a functional exercise.
The first time I did this it was by accident rather than design, and John was actually locked in his CB3000 at the time; now when I do it, I do it deliberately and usually do it with him unlocked, although this weekend gone I did it while he was safely locked in his Tollyboy. It took longer, but it was well worth it. The only downside was it was incredibly messy and he had to have a shower afterwards (our power-shower means the belt never has to come off for cleaning).
John’s description of external milking is “it’s like pissing only I know it’s not… I can feel my prostate emptying like I can with an orgasm, but it comes out in a flow rather than in pulses. It’s very nice but it’s not the same as an orgasm and there’s an exquisitely torturous frustration because there’s a definite ‘something’ missing”.
A third way of male chastity milking is to do it internally where you massage the prostate from inside the anus, either with your finger or something like the Aneros, a purpose-made device for massaging the prostate. I know precious little of the detailed technique of internal prostate milking and I’m not one to steal others’ content. There’s more information than you’d ever want or need here.
Some general comments about male chastity milking, both internal and external: some women, more than a few of those whacky Dommes, believe their men shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy any pleasure whatsoever, and go to great lengths to remove all sensation from milking by applying ice to the testicles and penis; and “forcing” your man to drink it afterwards is entirely optional.
Whatever floats your boat, I suppose. Just bear in mind this probably isn’t going to work for external milking because you’re not milking the prostate quite so mechanically as you are with internal milking. Another advantage you might find with internal milking is it’s supposed to be quite humiliating for the man.
Again, whatever floats your boat. Invite the family, put videos on YouTube, phone your friends. It’s all one to me. Just remember it’s not “necessary” to humiliate him and only the Chastity Taliban will tell you it is.
To anticipate the question of why I indulge in male chastity milking even though I’m not convinced there are any health benefits, there are two reasons.
First, it doesn’t do any harm and it might do some good.
And secondly, it’s fun. It’s another string of pleasure to my kinky bow. And not only is it pleasurable for both of us, but there’s the added benefit of it actually being more frustrating for John in the long run, as many a milked man will tell you.
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Hi Sarah.
First of all thank you very much for this blog. I've been a lurker, fan, follower etc for quite some time and I love your approach to male chastity.
This time I just had pop a comment regarding milking.
I have my hubby locked up more or less all the time and we've tried a lot of CBs. At the moment he's locked in a Lori's tube. I'm doing a lot of T&D to keep him going and motivated for my regime. It was however my hubby that brought up milking while in chastity becuase he had serious problems with his nighttime erections beyond 14 days in chastity. After about three weeks locked up he would have involuntary nocturnal emissions even tho the penis wasn't stimulated in any way. He had read aticles on the internet about milking and wanted me to have a go at it.
I didn't know anything about prostate milking before we started and so far I had only heard about internal milking. Therefore I'd love to hear a bit more about your external milking routine and how you do it.
When doing the internal milking. I've found the best way to do it is to have him on his knees lying bent over our livingroom table with his hands locked to his collar and his ass facing me. This way I can sit comfortably in the sofa watching TV or reading a magazine while milking him. I have found the Njoy Pure Wand to be the best item for the job and it usually takes me about 20 minutes to empty him. I prefer to have his hands locked up while doing it becuase he finds the procedure to be super frustrating and he usually tries evrything to get the stimulation of penis nesessary to orgasm. He describes the sensation as so fucking close to an orgasm that it's unbearable. While mikling him I push the wand slowly back and forth over his prostate gland and his seminal vesicles. Using a lot of lube both internally and externally is essential.
After I started milking him on a regular basis every 12-14 days or so his problem with nighttime erections is reduced. Ofc his penis attempts its regular "morning wood" but it isn't attempting to erect all night. And the involuntary nocturnal emmisions which actually was very pleasurable (for him…and annoying for me) mini orgasms, doesn't occur any more.
Did this come out understandable? I'm from Norway and my english isn't too good.
Hoping to hear a bit more about external milking….
Love
Nina
A regular contributor and respected authority on male chastity is Lady Lubyanka who has written to me THE definitive description on male prostate milking.I love the external one you practice as my perineum seems to be innordiantely sensitive and its very pleasurable.
It also gives a feeling of involuntary release which can be a really funny feeling.
Do you have links for that, Femsup?
John agrees about the perineum
The link thatFemsup was talking about is here and here.
But I don't think its something that you will like.
What leads you to believe I wouldn't like it, Lega?
She talks about domination more than I think you'll like.
Well, Lega, I'm not into femal domination and the like personally, but it's not as if it offends me or anything.
The information on the milking process seems to be comprehensive and well researched, so it's probably correct (I wouldn't know because it's not something I've really studied). I haven't read it all because I do find her writing tedious, I admit.
Hi Sarah,
Could you elaborate on the external milking just a bit? How much pressure to the perineum do you apply or are you just touching it? Does the emission start as soon as you get going or does it take awhile? About how long does the entire milking take? About how long does John have to build up without an orgasm for it to work?
OK, maybe that was more than just a bit.
Thanks, Scott
Scott, how much thrust do you use when you're making love "vanilla" style? My guess is you have no idea because you're just "in the moment"
But in the interests of your curiosity, I'll try to remember to get hold of a pressure-gauge next time. And watch the clock.
Yes, this is irony.
A knee or thigh pressed against my perineum as I ride said thigh or knee is beyond lovely.I will have to reinvestigate use of my own fingers on that ecstatic gland as I havn't tried it since childhood.