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Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It)

by Sarah on June 28, 2010

To con­tinue from my last post, let’s look at male chastity milking.

One of the pre­sup­po­si­tions under­pin­ning the prac­tice is long-term orgasm denial can be harm­ful to a man because it can cause prob­lems with his prostate gland, includ­ing an increased risk of cancer.

This pre­sup­po­si­tion may or may not be cor­rect, even though like so much else on the Forums and Blogs it’s accepted as Gospel Truth – Every­one Knows you “have” to milk the prostate “at least once a month” and this is the accepted Truth even though there’s: a) no com­pelling evi­dence to sug­gest milk­ing is nec­es­sary for good prostate health; or b) that once a month is the ideal frequency.

But per­haps it’s best to err on the side of safety, and since male chastity milk­ing itself can be as plea­sur­able or humil­i­at­ing as you want it to be for both of you, then regard­less of the health issues you might want to do it anyway.

As always there is more than one way to skin this par­tic­u­lar cat, so let’s start sim­ple and work our way up.

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First is the eas­i­est and most com­mon way: sim­ply let your man have an orgasm once a month (we may as well use this arbi­trary yard­stick for the fre­quency as any other). Some cou­ples might think this is an insufficiently-long period of orgasm denial, and you might be right. But even if milk­ing is nec­es­sary for prostate health, then it’s unlikely once every six weeks is going to rep­re­sent a sig­nif­i­cantly higher risk than once every four weeks does.

If you’re really unhappy with the thought of allow­ing or being allowed an orgasm this fre­quently, then there’s noth­ing to stop your part­ner from mak­ing sure it’s a ruined orgasm. You’ll get all the health ben­e­fits of male chastity milk­ing, if there are any, and add to the frus­tra­tion at the same time (but if you’ve never been for a month with­out an orgasm while “enjoy­ing” tease and denial at the hands of your wife or girl­friend, then you prob­a­bly don’t under­stand how long that month feels). You can use this with a bit of tease and denial, too.

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The next way to do it, and the way I typ­i­cally do it with John, is exter­nal milk­ing. I do this by gen­tly stroking John’s per­ineum, the soft skin between the pubic sym­ph­ysis and the coc­cyx, usu­ally while he’s pleas­ing me with his tongue, although occa­sion­ally I’ll have him bend over a table or a chair with his legs apart. I don’t do this often, because I per­son­ally pre­fer to see male chastity milk­ing as a shared plea­sure rather than just a func­tional exercise.

The first time I did this it was by acci­dent rather than design, and John was actu­ally locked in his CB3000 at the time; now when I do it, I do it delib­er­ately and usu­ally do it with him unlocked, although this week­end gone I did it while he was safely locked in his Tolly­boy. It took longer, but it was well worth it. The only down­side was it was incred­i­bly messy and he had to have a shower after­wards (our power-shower means the belt never has to come off for cleaning).

John’s descrip­tion of exter­nal milking is “it’s like piss­ing only I know it’s not… I can feel my prostate emp­ty­ing like I can with an orgasm, but it comes out in a flow rather than in pulses. It’s very nice but it’s not the same as an orgasm and there’s an exquis­itely tor­tur­ous frus­tra­tion because there’s a def­i­nite ‘some­thing’ miss­ing”.

A third way of male chastity milk­ing is to do it inter­nally where you mas­sage the prostate from inside the anus, either with your fin­ger or some­thing like the Aneros, a purpose-made device for mas­sag­ing the prostate. I know pre­cious lit­tle of the detailed tech­nique of inter­nal prostate milk­ing and I’m not one to steal oth­ers’ con­tent. There’s more infor­ma­tion than you’d ever want or need here.

Some gen­eral com­ments about male chastity milk­ing, both inter­nal and exter­nal: some women, more than a few of those whacky Dommes, believe their men shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy any plea­sure what­so­ever, and go to great lengths to remove all sen­sa­tion from milk­ing by apply­ing ice to the tes­ti­cles and penis; and “forc­ing” your man to drink it after­wards is entirely optional.

What­ever floats your boat, I sup­pose. Just bear in mind this prob­a­bly isn’t going to work for exter­nal milk­ing because you’re not milk­ing the prostate quite so mechan­i­cally as you are with inter­nal milk­ing. Another advan­tage you might find with inter­nal milk­ing is it’s sup­posed to be quite humil­i­at­ing for the man.

Again, what­ever floats your boat. Invite the fam­ily, put videos on YouTube, phone your friends. It’s all one to me. Just remem­ber it’s not “nec­es­sary” to humil­i­ate him and only the Chastity Tal­iban will tell you it is.

To antic­i­pate the ques­tion of why I indulge in male chastity milk­ing even though I’m not con­vinced there are any health ben­e­fits, there are two reasons.

First, it doesn’t do any harm and it might do some good.

And sec­ondly, it’s fun. It’s another string of plea­sure to my kinky bow. And not only is it plea­sur­able for both of us, but there’s the added ben­e­fit of it actu­ally being more frus­trat­ing for John in the long run, as many a milked man will tell you.

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Nina June 28, 2010 at 12:23 pm

Hi Sarah.
First of all thank you very much for this blog.  I've been a lurker, fan, follower etc for quite some time and I love your approach to male chastity.
This time I just had pop a comment regarding milking. 
I have my hubby locked up more or less all the time and we've tried a lot of CBs.  At the moment he's locked in a Lori's tube.  I'm doing a lot of T&D to keep him going and motivated for my regime. It was however my hubby that brought up milking while in chastity becuase he had serious problems with his nighttime erections beyond 14 days in chastity.  After about three weeks locked up he would have involuntary nocturnal emissions even tho the penis wasn't stimulated in any way. He had read aticles on the internet about milking and wanted me to have a go at it.
I didn't know anything about prostate milking before we started and so far I had only heard about internal milking.  Therefore I'd love to hear a bit more about your external milking routine and how you do it.
When doing the internal milking. I've found the best way to do it is to have him on his knees lying bent over our livingroom table with his hands locked to his collar and his ass facing me.  This way I can sit comfortably in the sofa watching TV or reading a magazine while milking him.  I have found the Njoy Pure Wand to be the best item for the job and it usually takes me about 20 minutes to empty him. I prefer to have his hands locked up  while doing it becuase he finds the procedure to be super frustrating and he usually tries evrything to get the stimulation of penis nesessary to orgasm.  He describes the sensation as so fucking close to an orgasm that it's unbearable. While mikling him I push the wand slowly back and forth over his prostate gland and his seminal vesicles. Using a lot of lube both internally and externally is essential.
After I started milking him on a regular basis every 12-14 days or so his problem with nighttime erections is reduced.  Ofc his penis attempts its regular "morning wood" but it isn't attempting to erect all night. And the involuntary nocturnal emmisions which actually was very pleasurable (for him…and annoying for me) mini orgasms, doesn't occur any more.
Did this come out understandable?  I'm from Norway and my english isn't too good.
Hoping to hear a bit more about external milking….
Love
Nina

femsup June 30, 2010 at 7:24 am

A regular contributor and respected authority on male chastity is Lady Lubyanka who has written to me THE definitive description on male prostate milking.I love the external one you practice as my perineum seems to be innordiantely sensitive and its very pleasurable.
 
It also gives a feeling of involuntary release which can be a really funny feeling. 

Sarah June 30, 2010 at 7:27 am

Do you have links for that, Femsup?

John agrees about the perineum ;-)

lega June 30, 2010 at 11:46 pm

The link thatFemsup was talking about is here and here.
But I don't think its something that you will like.

Sarah July 1, 2010 at 7:04 am

What leads you to believe I wouldn't like it, Lega?

lega July 1, 2010 at 8:42 pm

She talks about domination more than I think you'll like. :)

Sarah July 2, 2010 at 8:46 am

Well, Lega, I'm not into femal domination and the like personally, but it's not as if it offends me or anything.

The information on the milking process seems to be comprehensive and well researched, so it's probably correct (I wouldn't know because it's not something I've really studied). I haven't read it all because I do find her writing tedious, I admit.

Scott July 3, 2010 at 8:11 pm

Hi Sarah,
Could you elaborate on the external milking just a bit?  How much pressure to the perineum do you apply or are you just touching it?  Does the emission start as soon as you get going or does it take awhile?  About how long does the entire milking take?  About how long does John have to build up without an orgasm for it to work?
OK, maybe that was more than just a bit.
Thanks,  Scott

Sarah July 3, 2010 at 9:43 pm

Scott, how much thrust do you use when you're making love "vanilla" style? My guess is you have no idea because you're just "in the moment"

But in the interests of your curiosity, I'll try to remember to get hold of a pressure-gauge next time. And watch the clock.

Yes, this is irony.

 

 

femsup July 13, 2010 at 6:13 am

A knee or thigh pressed against my perineum as I ride said thigh or knee is beyond lovely.I will have to reinvestigate use of my own fingers on that ecstatic gland as I havn't tried it since childhood. 

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