As I’ve said often enough before, male chastity lies very much along a continuum.

One the one hand you’ve got sim­ple chastity play, which can be as mild and gen­tle as sim­ple teas­ing, the kind of thing every cou­ples enjoyed at some point, even though the label we give this delight­ful kink is unknown to them.

And then at the other end we’ve got the more – and often very – extreme forms, up to and I sup­pose includ­ing (even though I really don’t want to believe this is true), actual cas­tra­tion and penectomy.

And most of us are some­where in between (it’s prac­ti­cally cer­tain you’d find it fol­lows a Gauss­ian dis­tri­b­u­tion, like every other mea­sure of humanity).

So.

One thing I’ve noticed – and John has added some unique male insights into this for this week’s newslet­ter – is the ten­dency for male chastity to start out mild and rapidly become more extreme.

Now… is this a good thing or a bad thing?

I don’t think it’s objec­tively either – it depends on what the peo­ple involved want from it, after all.

If you find the idea a bit icky but you go along with it just to please your part­ner, then any ten­dency for your part­ner to get more and more into it is sim­ply going to be more and more icky. In which case it’s prob­a­bly a bad thing (but then you should be hav­ing actual adult con­ver­sa­tions about this, and nei­ther of you should really be doing any­thing you find gen­uinely repugnant).

Look­ing at my own expe­ri­ences of male chastity, they’re not sub­stan­tially dif­fer­ent from what I’m observ­ing in the rela­tion­ships of per­haps a dozen or more reg­u­lar correspondents.

It’s actu­ally quite heart­en­ing, espe­cially when they credit me for the advice I give out in Why He Wants You To Say ‘NO!’.

Well… it’s always nice to be appre­ci­ated, but really I write noth­ing more than com­mon sense.

But back to my own expe­ri­ences: I really can’t remem­ber a lot of detail about those very early days. I remem­ber some of the feel­ings – espe­cially the early fear and bewil­der­ment – but the details kind of merge into the back­ground a bit.

Yet I do know it wasn’t long before I started tak­ing more of a lead as it became less and less strange and threat­en­ing (is that the right word?).

And I do remem­ber one day real­is­ing how male chastity had gone from being just a game we played when we made love (which nec­es­sar­ily became much more fre­quent) to some­thing that was becom­ing some­thing more, some­thing tightly woven into the fab­ric of our lives together.

That was about the time when I really began to want to push John. At first, a week seemed like an eter­nity for both of us; then one day we were in our third week aim­ing for the full month, and it was all down to me – I’d def­i­nitely taken charge of the sched­ule and was busy enforc­ing the rules.

I don’t remem­ber tak­ing real con­trol over from John, and I think it real­ity it was actu­ally before we signed the male chastity con­tract we have in our fire­proof box… but that’s what I did.

And now… I can’t imag­ine going back to how it was. Nor can John. The thought of being with a man who orgasms when he feels like it is almost… pre­pos­ter­ous. How bor­ing! How pedes­trian and pre­dictable love­mak­ing would be.

Who’d go back to a mini hav­ing dri­ven a Rolls?

Right now, as you’ll be aware if you read Some­thing for the Week­end, my free weekly newslet­ter, John is in orgasm denial until Christ­mas at the very least; you’ll also know there be a fair to mid­dling chance he’s not going to be allowed to enter me in that time, either. I still can’t make my mind up about that one.

Per­haps I’ll just let him slide sloooowly in and out once every week. Just that… in from the tip to the root and out again for a count of ten… just so he knows.

Just so he feels.

Just so he remem­bers.

This isn’t idle mus­ing, mind… because I keep get­ting the thought (and going back to my orig­i­nal theme)… what if the year of just male chastity and orgasm denial isn’t enough for me?

What if I want to deny him pen­e­tra­tion for that long, too?

I get this awful feel­ing it’s sim­ply too cruel an idea to let pass me by… he really shouldn’t have bought me that rab­bit, you know…

P.S.  Those of you wait­ing for tomorrow’s announce­ment… keep your fin­gers crossed. It’s def­i­nitely going to be worth wait­ing for…

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