My name is Sarah Jameson, freelance writer, creator and host of this blog and strict male chastity keyholder to my husband, John.

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We’re an otherwise normal couple and, despite what you may have heard, read or been led to believe, male chastity is not some weird and way-out sexual kink played only by a few extreme enthusiasts.

You can read more about male chastity, what it means, and how we came to live a serious male chastity lifestyle in my free guide.

See… the only difference in our relationship and the more mainstream ones you imagine your friends and neighbours have – and perhaps like the one you are in now, but would like to change – is that…

I Keep John, by His Own Consent in Strict Male Chastity and Orgasm Denial for Many Months at a Time

Indeed, at the time of writing this, John is almost four months in to a planned period of male chastity and orgasm denial of at least 7 months (Christmas 2010), and perhaps as long as 13 months (the Summer Solstice 2011).

If you’re new to male chastity or simply looking for more information on it, then you are most certainly in the right place.

Because one reason I began the Male Chastity Blog in the first place is when I was new to male chastity and looking for a good source of sane, sensible and real information about it, I was horrified and almost put off the idea entirely by the huge mass of poor information available, ranging from the just silly to the sinister and, in my opinion, potentially damaging and dangerous.

Here Are Some of the Many Myths You’ll Find I Reveal, Expose, and Debunk on the Pages of This Blog

Male Chastity Implies and Necessarily Includes Male Submission.

This is unequivocally untrue. Often relationships which involve male submission and female domination do include male chastity, but the reverse is not necessarily the case. John is not in any way submissive, and my “control” of him is limited strictly to his orgasms and the bedroom.

Your man can still be manly, masculine, confident, strong and assertive and still crave male chastity and orgasm denial. Male chastity does not automatically mean your man wants to be turned into a weak and spineless slave. He might want this, of course – but that’s not necessary to enjoy male chastity and not necessarily what he’s after.

Male chastity can be vanilla.

Male Chastity Implies a Female Led Relationship.

This is also untrue. If anything, our marriage is mostly male-led.

Male Chastity Implies You Must Be a Dominant Woman.

This is not so. I am not a dominant woman, yet I enjoy exercising my feminine power in controlling John’s orgasms and “enforcing” male chastity.

Male Chastity is about Control.

No. It includes an element of control, but it’s not about control, necessarily. For me and John and for many of the readers and commentators you’ll find within the pages of this Blog, male chastity is basically a sexy game played out over a period of days, weeks, months, and yes, perhaps years.

Male Chastity Will Mend a Broken Relationship.

Sadly, this myth, while being one of the most pervasive is also the one with the least truth in it.

It’s a marital aid and necessarily involves more physical and emotional intimacy, not less. So if your relationship is in a state where more intimacy is the last thing either of you wants, then male chastity will simply make things worse, not better.

So if you’re looking for real information about male chastity, free of hype and make-believe, then I invite you to click on any of the links you see and take whatever you need from it.

For the more adventurous, I have a free 12-Part male chastity guide, Why He Wants You to Say ‘No!’ here. It’s completely free and comes with a complementary weekly newsletter, Something for the Weekend and the Tuesday Tease, hot and explicit sex-tips on how men and women can please each other while living the male chastity lifestyle.

I also recommend Thumper’s new male chastity forum — it’s a friendly place, so don’t be afraid to drop by and say “hello”.

In any case, you are most welcome.

Sarah.

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