I never set out to write a male chastity book.

No, seri­ously.

I started the Blog for all the rea­sons I’ve gone over time and time again, and over time as more and more peo­ple start­ing read­ing it and send­ing me mes­sages it became obvi­ous the eas­i­est way to save my own san­ity was to answer all the ques­tions in one place – hence my free Guide and Newslet­ter (the lat­ter grew out of the free Guide in an attempt to fill in some gaps and put things in a real-world context)

But it wasn’t long before even this wasn’t enough and peo­ple wanted some­thing more.

And that was when a reader or two, and John (I can’t remem­ber who came first, if you’ll par­don the expres­sion), sug­gested I wrote a full no-holds-barred male chastity book.

My... I’ve never written any book before, let alone one as risqué as a male chastity book.

And one thing that put me off was there were a cou­ple already out there – Lucy Fairbourne’s A Guide for Key­hold­ers,

Be Care­ful What You Wish For — The Ulti­mate Guide to Male Chastity

which I think is not too bad so far as it goes, and Beau­ti­ful Enslave­ment by “Mis­tress” Sara Collins, which I con­sider to be woe­fully inad­e­quate attempt by some­one who has hired a researcher to trawl the ‘net for infor­ma­tion and throw together some­thing she opti­misti­cally calls a “male chastity book” in a weekend.

So, I thought there was room for some­thing a lit­tle more… well, just more.

Now, sev­eral months and one male chastity book later, I think it’s all worked out rather well.

I am very proud of and pleased with my male chastity book, and it has been uni­ver­sally acclaimed. No, not every­one likes every word of it, but that’s to be expected. Here’s a typ­i­cal review, for instance. And Thumper, while he dis­agrees with my admit­tedly black-and-white char­ac­ter­i­sa­tion of sub­mis­sive men, also said some very nice things about it.

Yet still, there are those who piss and moan about my writ­ing a male chastity book at all.

Some think I’m act­ing “above my sta­tion”, what­ever that might mean; oth­ers think I shouldn’t be so mer­ce­nary as to expect remu­ner­a­tion for my hard work; and yet oth­ers go fur­ther and say I can­not truly be seri­ous about male chastity because I’m ask­ing money for a male chastity book (that to me is such a non sequitur it’s on a dif­fer­ent planet).

I find this sense of entitlement for a male chastity book most unpleasant, like a bad smell.

I’m not offended – frankly, I don’t give a fuck, and pre­fer to invest my time and energy in the nearly 200 peo­ple who have invested their time and energy in them­selves by buy­ing a male chastity book rather than worry about a few sad-sacks who think they some­how have a claim on the fruit of my hun­dreds of hours of labour sit­ting down and putting a male chastity book together.

The fact is, I’m not sell­ing out or deceiv­ing any­one. No one who doesn’t want a male chastity book has to buy one. The num­ber of peo­ple who are con­tent with my free Guide and Newslet­ter is approx­i­mately an order of mag­ni­tude larger than those who do invest in my male chastity book.

And that’s fine. I don’t begrudge any­one the time and effort I put in to the Blog and the free Guide for a second.

It’s nice that my baby, my own male chastity book is sell­ing pretty well, yes; it’s nice that I’m read­ing lovely things peo­ple are say­ing about it and me (I’m as much a sucker for com­pli­ments as any woman); and it’s nice to have some­thing of my own in the busi­ness rather than fol­low­ing John’s lead all the time.

But none of it’s nec­es­sary. I started the Blog for a rea­son – to share my expe­ri­ences and help edu­cate cou­ples new to the lifestyle, show­ing them it’s not all French-maids’ out­fits, creamp­ies and cuckokding.

And that rea­son is still valid today.

The Blog and writ­ing about the lifestyle has made a huge dif­fer­ence in my life in so, so many areas.

And believe me, I’m not get­ting rich of sell­ing the odd male chastity book here and there to peo­ple who really do feel they need that bit of extra infor­ma­tion that’s not avail­able in the same for­mat, in as much depth or in the same log­i­cal order.

So, to all those who have sup­ported me, either by invest­ing my male chastity book or just mak­ing nice com­ments about me, thank you. To the silent major­ity of my read­ers who per­haps take away all they want and need from the Blog and free Guide, thank you, too.

But to those who com­plain and think my believ­ing fair exchange is no rob­bery, and my ask­ing a purely con­sen­sual reward for my end­less work on a male chastity book is some­how wrong, and I’m let­ting the “side” down in some way… my guess is you’re the same kinds of whiny wannabes who try to bully your wives and girl­friends into lock­ing you up with­out a shred of con­sid­er­a­tion for what they want.

So, to you humour­less, whin­ing shits I say… “go boil your head!”. You don’t have to buy a male chastity book if you don’t want one!

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