“Why are male chastity and male orgasm denial so popular?”

This was the ques­tion posed to me in a list of sev­eral sent by a lady who has had the good for­tune to be passed a copy of Be Care­ful What You Wish For by her hubby last weekend.

As an aside, I am get­ting over­whelm­ingly pos­i­tive reviews of it, so if you don’t have it yet and you’re seri­ous about male chastity, then I encour­age you to look at it now (or at least check out the free guide and newslet­ter).

Because when you get grate­ful men say­ing things like this to you about orgasm denial:

“The rea­son for my mail to you is to thank you for giv­ing me the courage to ask her out right! Your com­ments are so straight and cor­rect. IF YOU want some­thing ask, Women are not mind read­ers. My wife is not into D/s or sissy or slave just very vanilla. So as we were dri­ving back from shop­ping the other week I said I want to buy and wear a steel belt, she did not kill me. cry or kick my teeth down my throat […] Today I rang Richard [of Tolly­boy] and he reck­ons I will have belt in 8 days time. Thank you for mak­ing me stronger [mar­ried 35 years] by the way”

Then you get an inkling you’re doing some­thing right.

But why male chastity and male orgasm denial?

On the face of it, you’d not think a man would be so happy in the knowl­edge he’s pretty soon going to be suf­fer­ing what must be one of the hard­est things for a man to endure: long term male orgasm denial.

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But they are.

And it is hard to see why, it’s true.

As I’ve remarked before, if John was to stop just before I came and told me, “Nope, that’s it…” I’d be climb­ing the walls. I’d prob­a­bly dive on him and rape him. Or beat him to death.

It dri­ves me insane enough when he teases me a lit­tle keep­ing me on the edge for what seems like hours but is in truth prob­a­bly under a minute (one of the advan­tages of hav­ing mul­ti­ple orgasms for us girls, Gen­tle­men, is we don’t have to savour them). So full orgasm denial would be beyond the pale.

There is the power-exchange kick, of course.

And then there are the many, many ben­e­fits to mar­riages and rela­tion­ships – increased inti­macy, the oppor­tu­nity to become more ratio­nal and rea­son­able about sex, even advan­tages for men with ED who feel the pres­sure to “per­form” taken off them.

But on top of all this there is that deli­cious, exquis­ite, aching desire, urge and need to come… cou­pled with the thrill of know­ing beyond all doubt your crav­ing to have that release denied is going to be indulged… per­haps for months on end (if you’re a very lucky boy).

Not long ago there was a dis­cus­sion on male chastity and male orgasm denial on a very vanilla forum – and it seemed impos­si­ble for the peo­ple there to break out of the mind­set that it was abu­sive and the province of inse­cure, untrust­ing and con­trol­ling people.

Hell, just search on Google and you’ll find loads of places where men and women laugh and guf­faw at the whole thing – entirely miss­ing the point, every sin­gle time. It’s com­mon… but it ain’t nor­mal.

And so to answer the lady’s orig­i­nal question…

I don’t actually know why men crave orgasm denial

We can ask our men about it and hypoth­e­sise until the cows come home yet still not get an answer we can slap down on the table and say, “Yup, there it is… The Answer!”.

What we do know is male chastity and male orgasm denial are fairly com­mon games men and women play, and I bet they span all enlight­ened cul­tures (and are prob­a­bly har­boured a secret and very illicit fan­tasy by the rest ).

This sug­gests they’re prob­a­bly touch­ing off some very deep and fun­da­men­tal fire­works hard-wired into our neu­rol­ogy. There’s no obvi­ous rea­son for us to have evolved this way, but then there are many pecu­liar sec­ondary effects of evo­lu­tion that aren’t detri­men­tal to sur­vival and so have no pres­sure for them to be bred out of the species.

To this lady I’d say… who cares why?

I love know­ing things… but I learned a long time ago not to bash my head against walls I knew were never going to yield – and the why’s of oth­ers’ moti­va­tions, espe­cially when it comes to kinky games like male chastity and male orgasm denial are one of those walls, no doubt about it.

So I’m con­tent not to know why orgasm denial is so craved by men, and sim­ply enjoy the fun.

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