Live the Male Chastity Lifestyle You Crave
If you’re looking for information about strict male chastity within a loving relationship, then you’re in exactly the right place.
Here’s how it works: male chastity is a consensual act where a man willingly foregoes his orgasms and puts the decision about when, how, where and even if he’s allowed to orgasm in his partner’s hands.
It’s not something that’s done to him; it’s something that’s done with him. And it’s done with the pleasure and satisfaction of you both in mind.
The ultimate result for loving couples is a closer more emotionally and physically intimate relationship, where they typically enjoy more sexual activity rather than less.
Sound like fun to you?
Because it is fun. In fact, I can safely say male chastity is probably the best thing that’s ever happened in my marriage, after getting married to John in the first place, of course.
But one of the toughest things about it all is finding real information on the topic. Yes, there are plenty of blogs and forums out there, that’s true… but the majority of them are written by men who are living their fantasies online rather than in real life (and many of the blogs supposedly written by women are written by men, too; and many of those that aren’t are written by women who seek to titillate men). The upshot is there are very few places where you can find sane, sensible andrealistic information about serious male chastity.
Happily for you, this blog is one of those places.
What Other People Say About the Male Chastity Blog
“Thank you for finally showing me the way to get what I want.” — M.M.
“I just want to say that in the time I have been reading your writing — with the Mistress sometimes looking over the shoulder — we have been impressed with what is said. Good homely down to earth realism.” — R.F.
“Sarah, many thanks for your refreshingly practical and down to earth writings on this topic.” — S.
“I really appreciate the time and thought you have put into this subject. You have done a marvelous job. So marvelous, in fact, that if I end up following through with this, it will have been your thought provoking essays that made the difference and took away so many potential future orgasms.” — T.D.
“Thank you for putting together your publications and website and a big thumbs up here in Norwich UK from me.” — Stephen.
About Me, Sarah Jameson
Sarah is my real name. And John is my husband’s real name, too.
Other than that we value our privacy, not least because John and I run our own business, and for professional reasons we want to keep our sex-life separate from our business life insofar as we can. Plus, there are a lot of weirdos, creeps and, frankly, unpleasant people out there who are variously sexually unstable, aggressive and threatening, and even just plain… creepy.
We’re a normal and very happily married couple (although our being happy perhaps itself makes us not that normal), with one major difference: John is locked, by his own consent, in a Lori #2C.
In the early days of our journey into male chastity I would allow him orgasms every three months or so, when we’d have “Chastity Honeymoons”, where we’d make love and he’d be allowed to orgasm how and when he wanted to.
But between New Year’s Eve 2010 and New Year’s Day 2012, John didn’t orgasm at all. Not once. A whole year’s orgasm denial, in other words.
That was pretty amazing for both of us.
We’re seriously thinking about aiming for permanent orgasm denial for John, beginning some time in mid- to late-2012.
If you’re not into the male chastity “scene” yourself, then you might find this just a little strange. You might even be tempted to think he’s some kind of “sissy”, or somehow less manly because of it.
Nothing could be further from the truth. He’s strong, assertive, confident sexy and altogether manly and masculine.
By the same token, I’m not some fire-breathing, leather-clad über-Dominatrix who calls him a “worthless slave” and treats him like dirt. I have to ask myself why any woman keeps her man around if he’s truly worthless.
Oh, I know some men like that kind of thing, and I’m not making a value-judgment either way. My only comment really is it’s not for us and we’re into what you might call vanilla chastity. We are not into D&S and my “control” of John does not extend beyond consensual male chastity.
And the reason for this chastity blog?
When we first started getting into it, some years ago now, we had a hard time finding anything which catered exclusively for male chastity without going into all the other female-domination topics, too.
So I finally plucked up the courage to start my own little corner of the Internet. And it wasn’t long before readers were clamouring for something more substantial than the blog alone, so I put together Why He Wants You to Say NO! a free Guide to male chastity, and How To Drive Your Man Insane With Desire, an erotic, explicit, no-holds-barred introduction to Tease and Denial.
They’re both FREE, and you can get them simply by leaving your details below and clicking the button:
I hope you find it interesting, informative, useful and fun.
Please, feel free to comment or to send me a message, but please note I rarely answer questions one-to-one because of the sheer volume of messages I get. I do read them all, though, I promise.
But, please, before you feel prompted to ask me a question, read the Blog first and elect to receive my free male chastity guide and emails. Almost every question you can think of has already been asked and answered somewhere.
Male chastity is a wonderful adventure, and let’s all share it…