Arnie's Secret Male Chastity Message

by Sarah on April 19, 2011

Have you ever seen the Terminator movies?

I have.

I don’t rate them that much (except the first two), but John loves them. Like many men, his taste in films isn’t exactly complex: as long as there’s lots of guns and stuff blowing up, he’s usually happy.

But the one thing I DO like is Arnie’s implacable pursuit of his goal:  “Listen, and understand. That terminator is out there. It can’t be bargained with. It can’t be reasoned with. It doesn’t feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until you are dead“.

Now, odd as it may seem… apart from the “dead” bit, this is overwhelmingly what men want from the women who hold their keys (they’re telling me this in the answers to my ‘Help Sarah’ questions).

Men want a woman who will give them what they want… and not be soft, kind or pitying and allow that orgasm they need so badly.

In other words… they want to come… but they crave denial. They’re telling me they want their wives and girlfriends (and in some cases boyfriends, too), to be strict, uncompromising even to the point of permanent orgasm denial. They want male chastity… and as strict as it can possibly be.

Ironic really… how the thought of getting her to ignore your pleas and begging is to get her to listen to you properly, isn’t it?

And at the root of it all is communication. It’s hard to get someone to give you what you don’t ask for. Which is why I’m so “big” on effective communication in Be Careful What You Wish For.

Sometimes, if you want something, you’ve got to be a bit “Terminator” like yourself and go out there and get it. You want chastity… you gotta ask for it.

Or, as my mother used to say, “Don’t ask, don’t get“.

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