Cuckold Chastity: When It Goes Wrong

by Sarah on August 21, 2011

Cuckold chastity is potentially devastating and whilst one perhaps ought not laugh at others’ misfortunes…

… when I get an email from a guy who’s previously asked me about cuckold chastity, ignored my advice, and then has found it really can blow up in your face… it’s hard not to.

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Cuckold Chastity – Feels Great, Doesn’t It?


The long and the short of it is he asked me what I thought about it, and I gave my usual answer: I have no desire to do it myself, it’s a lifestyle choice others can make if they wish, and you’d do well to understand it comes with some substantial and objective risks.

This wasn’t what he wanted to hear, and after a few truly irritating emails from him (ultimately I realised he wanted my approval, not my advice), he went ahead and pretty much bullied and cajoled his wife into it anyway.

And now she’s left him for her “bull”.

I hate to say “I told you so”, but… I told you so.

Cuckold Chastity Is a Minefield

He had the common fantasy of watching her with a well-hung boyfriend who, it goes without saying, had to be black (and I have no idea why this is so common). I don’t know if the “bull” fit the fantasy completely, but it was ultimately moot because…

… she enjoyed cuckold chastity so much she upped sticks and left.

It’s called “emotional entanglement” and we women are really, really good at getting caught by it, especially when the guy is 20 years younger than our husbands, has the body of Adonis and makes us come like an express train.

I can see the appeal of cuckold chastity right enough. What woman wouldn’t want to try someone different? And for men, cuckold chastity unleashes a flood of all sorts of hot, dark and dangerous fantasies. For many, the idea of seeing another man slide his cock into his woman and then seeing them rutting like sex-crazed weasels is mind-blowing.

But after the wave comes the flood and all the damage it can wreak.

I know, I know… this is a sad tale in its way. His cuckold chastity fantasy has destroyed his marriage.

And I really do feel sorry for the guy.

But, you pays your money and you takes your choice generic synthroid. We humans are not logical creatures. We’re emotional meat-machines driven by some very basic and fundamental desires.

Dicker with that and you’re asking for trouble. Cuckold chastity really is poking a sharp stick into the dark cave of our strongest urges. Often it’s best to let sleeping dogs lie.

I must stress…

I have no strong opinions on cuckold chastity at all

Just like I have no strong opinions about soap operas, semolina or Morris dancing.

I personally have no interest in or desire for any them so they, including cuckold chastity, don’t figure in my life.

And if you ask me about the pros and cons of cuckold chastity, all I can do is share my own indifference to it, and then point out some very objective dangers to you.

The rest is up to you.

You make your own bed, and then you lie in it. Or, perhaps your wife’s new boyfriend does.

Me, I’m into male chastity to enhance and enjoy my relationship with my husband — that’s the whole point of everything I share in Be Careful What You Wish For. I don’t want or need cuckold chastity.

Your mileage may vary, in which case Be Careful What You Wish For probably is NOT for you.

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