John's Love of Male Orgasm Denial (Just as Well He Likes it, Really)

by Sarah on August 25, 2010

Male orgasm denial is very much in my thoughts right now as John approaches the end of his fourth month of not coming.

He has gone longer before, as I think I’ve mentioned elsewhere, but this time round he seems somewhat hornier than ever before (I meant to write about this in last week’s Something for the Weekend Newsletter but I actually forgot and wrote something else instead).

Why is it getting to him more than ever?

Four reasons I think:

  1. First, he’s never actually been locked for so long. While we’ve had assorted devices before now and he’s been on his Honour – which I’m sure he’s not broken – being locked in that there belt of his is definitely very different psychologically than simply not touching his cock because of a simple device. I can’t say for certain he wouldn’t be the same had he been locked long‐term in the Lori, but I suspect he wouldn’t. One of the things I really loved about the Lori is I could tease John to distraction while he was wearing it – but the Tollyboy has to come off (which has benefits all of its own, of course).
  2. Secondly, he knows he doesn’t have a “male chastity honeymoon” coming up any time soon – this time we’re playing male orgasm denial for keeps, so to speak. Well, at least until Christmas. Ordinarily he’d be looking forward to a serious weekend of some mind‐wrenching fucking and orgasms in a couple of weeks, but now he knows that date is going to go unmarked except for the very special treat I have lined up for him. I don’t normally hold with making promises but as an experiment in cruelty I have told him exactly what I am going to do with him on 9th September (yes, details in this week’s newsletter, so YOU can decide how cruel it is knowing what’s ahead of him)
  3. Thirdly, I have finally decided male orgasm denial is not enough, and he’s no longer going to be allowed inside me, except for my ultra‐cruel in‐and‐out once to a count of ten torture, and that’s going to hold until Christmas and probably next May when we’ll hit the full year. Still undecided what to do after that. He also knows how I’m going to make him come the next time I do… if I do, that is (more on that in the Newsletter). Anyway, the point is his knowing all this – and if truth be told his egging me on, rather – means he’s as horny as a sex‐crazed weasel in a harem. Serves him right for buying me a Rabbit and an endless supply of batteries.
  4. And fourthly, I’ve alluded to this before, but these past few months there hasn’t been a single day that I haven’t written something about male orgasm denial and male chastity. What with the Blog, the Newsletter, Be Careful What You Wish For and even the unending conversations with John about it as a lifestyle and about it as our lifestyle have conspired to make it top of consciousness for me for a long, long time. This must needs rub off on John, especially since it’s been making me horny, and since Sarah Decides, what Sarah wants, John provides 😉

So all in all, it’s pretty fucking amazing. This whole thing is pretty amazing really. When I started the Blog, the Mini‐Guide and the Newsletter, and then started to write BCWYF, I really never imagined it would take off like it has.

And I couldn’t have done it without John’s help and guidance, of course. So really, he can blame himself for his… ahem… stiff predicament.

As they say… Be Careful What You Wish For.

Night everyone… Sarah’s feeling catlike and feisty, and John has that smile on his face…

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