On Being a Male Chastity Goddess

by Sarah on February 23, 2011

I just got voted Goddess on the Male Chastity Lifestyle group. No, really I did. Alas, it’s not true, and I have no wish for it to be true, at least not with John.

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Male Chastity… how wicked and cruel do you beg me to be?

But I can’t deny there’s a dark little corner of me that wonders… what if...? Sometimes it would be glorious to own a man and have a slave in permanent chastity to do all the things I want doing but don’t want to do and John refuses to do for me. Somehow, though, I don’t think he’d be up for having a live‐in, and on balance neither would I. Too much responsibility, like having a dog, I suppose.

And there’s definitely something in the thought of having a man whom you never, ever let come right from day one. I think if I was ever single again, that’s something I’d insist on moving forward.

And I still toss around the idea of having a weekend retreat for couples getting into male chastity, but that definitely won’t happen before we’ve moved to the farm at the top of the lane, even if it happens at all.

Oh well… a girl can dream, can’t she?

Personally, I blame the weather. These past few days have been warmer and brighter, and while there’s still a chill in the air, Spring is most definitely on her way. I love the Spring, even more than the Summer, because all the long sunny days are still ahead.

Which, of course, makes John all the friskier. Yet, it’s not just him — because I’ve noticed a definite change in the tone of the emails and messages I get (I get hundreds every week).

Unsurprisingly, there are a lot of men out there who are…

Chomping at the Bit to Be Locked in Male Chastity...

And there are a surprisingly large number of women who want to lock up their men but aren’t having too much success in talking them into it (this doesn’t surprise me, really).

Oh, and finally a quick answer to a question. Terry wanted to know:

Hi Sarah. I read in my e‐mail about John’s review for his Lori #2. In it and other messages you both mention that you guys are going for a 1 year term of chastement. My question is if you milk John’s prostate during such a long commitment, and if so how often do you plan on a milking? Thank you. Terry.”

Good question, Terry. I actually wrote about this on the blog here.

But in short, you can milk internally, externally or with a ruined orgasm. I tend to use external milking, but might ‘treat’ him to a ruined orgasm if I’m feeling especially wicked.

Of course, despite the common wisdom, there is NO compelling evidence milking or orgasm are necessary for prostate health, and certainly no evidence to suggest the often quoted frequency of one month is the optimum frequency, assuming it is necessary. In other words, it seems male chastity and long‐term orgasm denial are safe. But, of course, you make your own mind up and assume any risks yourself.

And yes, John is 'enjoying' a full year of orgasm denial, not just male chastity.

I’m doing my best to make male chastity for a year as exquisitely torturous as I possibly can for him, if for no other reason than his next orgasm, just after midnight on 1st January 2012 is going to be the most amazing thing he’s ever experienced. I want it to take hours ;-).

Now that is something to look forward to, don’t you think?

You know, I’d never say male chastity is a panacea, but it sure comes close for me.

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