Strapons and sweaty straining

by Sarah on January 15, 2012

I’ve been asked about the toy store I’ve added the blog yesterday, about why it’s so general, and, specifically, why there’s a definite absence of chastity devices.

As I did say in my email, it’s just quick dip of my toe in the water and I need to put some time into making it more aligned with chastity, and with tease and denial.

But to answer the specific question, about devices, I need to think deeply about selling anything like that, because there are devices and there are devices. In other words, some of them are simply rubbish and won’t give buyers the experience they are hoping for (I know this from personal experience).

So for the time being, I’m going to leave devices in the hands of the people who make them to order. This is probably short term, and if I can find some off-the-shelf devices which offer real value for money, then I have no objection to selling them (John is in the middle of writing a review of one, even as I write).

Other toys and playthings are much less problematical, and I’ll finish up by answering the question I’ve had dozens of times in the past few months: what happened to your strap on?

Well, it’s had a lot of use, lol.

Some readers have asked me why John would want me to fuck him with a strapon, which surprised me… because I thought it was obvious the strapon wasn’t for him at all.

Well, let me be clear: he isn’t the one who’s gets to have it used on him. He’s the one wearing it.

You see, most men love to please a woman with a vibrator, or watch her please herself with anything.

And using a strapon to please her when he’s locked and in denial is like pleasing her with her favourite toy, only on steroids.

Because he is fucking her, all bar actually being inside her — he experiences the whole thing up close and personal, so to speak, and has her body hot and sweaty straining against him.

And the frustration he feels?

Delicious!

The ones we have are very much like this:

http://www.malechastityblog.com/my-favourite-strapon

http://www.malechastityblog.com/my-favourite-harness (the D-rings make it really easy to adjust, even when you’re both going at it like the clappers).

Seriously, it’s worth having a go with this, because you have no IDEA what you’re both missing (and that’s a promise).

And remember and there’s a 15% discount on these today — just use the discount code LOCKMESARAH at the checkout.

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