I’m not entirely sure why I’m doing this. No… that’s not true. I am sure why I’m doing it… but I’m not sure it’s the best thing to do.

My name is Sarah. I’m a nor­mal mar­ried woman liv­ing with my hus­band. John. At least, I was. I mean I’m still liv­ing with him, and we’re more in love than ever before… but it’s not what you’d call nor­mal,  not by any stretch of the imaginati0n.

Because about 2 1/2 years ago, John con­fessed to me he wanted to be, and I’ll use his words, “locked in long-term chastity”. At the time I didn’t know a sin­gle thing about it and I was con­fused, shocked and a lit­tle spooked.

He engi­neered the whole thing quite well after read­ing how some­one else had done it on a forum ded­i­cated to chastity (not that I  knew this at the time, as you’ll discover).

What he did was sug­gest we each write down our favourite fan­tasies, swap them, and then act them out for each other.

So that’s what we did, and he read mine and looked suit­ably impressed… then I looked at his and.… he’d writ­ten only one… and everything’s been a bit strange ever since.

What he wrote, and I have the paper in front of me as I write this, was “I want you to lock me in long-term chastity and have total con­trol of my orgasms. I want you to tease me and deny me and make me please you in any way you demand while I’m locked.”

I was a bit taken aback by this and didn’t really know what to say. I’d never even heard of male chastity, and when I thought of chastity belts I got an image of some rusty old iron thing forced upon a stern Vic­to­rian man’s wife. Or per­haps some­thing from the Mid­dle Ages and the Crusades.

We talked about it for a while because I really had no clue about what it entailed or any­thing else. It turned out his idea of “long term” was no exag­ger­a­tion… “months or a year, even longer”, he said.

Wow. This was some­thing new.

Over the next few weeks we car­ried out a few of my top fan­tasies (mind your own busi­ness!), while I researched John’s, both on my own and together with him.

I have to say, he was very good. Not pushy with it, although I could tell how keen he was.

We started off, at his sug­ges­tion, by my just refus­ing to let him orgasm when we made love.

This was par­tially suc­cess­ful because even this turned him on so much, he wasn’t able to con­trol him­self, and to be fair at that point it was very hard for me to get my head around the idea I could (and was sup­posed to) sim­ply tell him “stop!” and he would. I sup­pose I was half-expecting him to react by get­ting angry or sullen or some­thing like that (you know what men can be like, don’t you?).

But he didn’t at all, not once.

If any­thing he got more frus­trated if I didn’t put my foot down, so to speak, and tell him “stop!”

One prob­lem with this is when we’re mak­ing love, I’m not nec­es­sar­ily too clear-headed myself, so I tend to for­get what I’m sup­posed to be doing.

And of course… none of this stopped him from being able to mas­tur­bate, and I’m pos­i­tive he did. After a week or so of being told “no” and being made to stop mid thrust, he was far too horny not to, I think. I have no proof, and I’ve not asked him, but I know him so well…

While all this was going on I was research­ing more, look­ing at devices and belts and basi­cally com­ing to terms with it all. After my ini­tial shock, I wasn’t exactly against the idea totally, but it did seem a bit weird if I’m honest.

Hav­ing said that, it did start to grow on me and that’s when I sug­gested we invest in a sim­ple device. We looked around and set­tled on the CB3000 (this was even before the later CB6000 came along, I think).

I’ll pick this up again in my next post.

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